Jump to navigation. Image via Pexels. Fuck traditional marriage. And women always lose—particularly Black ones. Committed partnership with the right person can be beautiful and sustaining. I know this as a married woman.
It happens to the best of us: we're in a committed relationship for years, then we realize, "meh," the passion just isn't what it used to be. It might not be an easy thing to admit, but if you've ever felt that way, you're not alone. As Eric Anderson, a professor of masculinity, sexuality, and sport at the University of Winchester explains , "The most predictable thing about a relationship is that, the longer it progresses, the quality and the frequency of sex between the couple will fade.
Attraction is a complicated, messy thing. What one person finds attractive may be revolting to another, especially when it comes to appearance after all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But when it comes to attraction, the way people behave is just as important as physical appearance. Sure, we all have different deal-breakers and preferences, but it turns out that there are some behaviors that are nearly universally attractive to women. We spoke to the experts, including psychologists, relationship experts, and matchmakers, to find out which behaviors are going to attract a woman your way and which are going to send her running for the hills.